Okay,
This forum seems the closet ill get to answering my question.
I have a shoutcast stream through a 3rd party streaming company, jb stream.
I am unhappy with my current player ( it seems to crash peoples browsers).
I found a player which i would like to emulate, and they use the same company to stream as i do, so i know this can be done! 
Here you can find my current player: Mystic Politics | Mystic Politics Radio
Here is my stream: JBServers.net :: Shoutcast Control Panel
Here is the player popup url id like to mimic/copy/steal : Listen Live to AMO 24/7! | Atlas Media Online
here is the code:
Code:
<!-- SWFObject embed by Geoff Stearns geoff@deconcept.com http://blog.deconcept.com/swfobject/ -->
<script type="text/javascript" src="players/swfobject.js"></script>
<body onload="ajax_update();">
<embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" src="players/mediaplayer.swf" style="" id="amo247" name="amo247" quality="high" flashvars="type=mp3&file=http://74.86.169.94:8038/;stream.nsv&backcolor=0xc9e0fa&autostart=true" height="0" width="0"></div>
<script type="text/javascript">
var so = new SWFObject('players/mediaplayer.swf', 'amo247', '0', '0', '7');
so.addVariable('type', 'mp3');
so.addVariable('file', 'http://74.86.169.94:8038/;stream.nsv');
so.addVariable('backcolor','0xc9e0fa');
so.addVariable('autostart', 'true');
so.write('player');
</script>
<div id="header"><span></div>
<div id="body-inner">
<h2>Now on AMO 24/7...</h2>
<center><span="http://jbstream.net/tunein.php/amo/tunein.pls" id="cc_stream_info_song">Loading...</span></center>
<script language="javascript" type="text/javascript" src="http://jbstream.net/system/streaminfo.js"></script>
<script language="javascript" type="text/javascript" src="http://jbstream.net/js.php/amo/streaminfo/rnd0"></script>
<br/><center><a href="javascript:this.location.reload();">Reload Player</a></center>
</div>
<br/>
</body>
basically this loads a stream in a popup window, EXACTLY as i wish to do, and they use sam broadcaster and jbstream, exactly as i do.
Can anyone tell me how to load up the stream in a swf file like they have?
Thanks a bunch!